I read this poem on the insistence of my father. He was very inspired by the lines and would often quote them to my younger sister and me. During his tough times he had taken a print out of the poem and had pasted it in his room. It was as if this poem would give him the strength to go on despite the challenges life presented. He told both my sister and me to look into this poem beyond it’s words and understand it for its essence. As kids, we just listened but never understood the poem. Today I understand that Dad wanted to make both me and my sister a better and stronger person (as the poem puts it – a Man). Some might argue that this is a very gender specific poem. But Dad always said that the reference to “a Man” or “my son” is not to a specific gender. It is for all human being to encourage them to be a better person.
I lost Dad last year. A lot changed in the last year, and I have been trying to adorn this huge responsibility that Dad left on us. Trying to face life with a smile on my face and not give up even when all is lost. People are not easy and life is not pleasant or kind. There will always be those who will doubt you and blame you. Life will also not show you kindness, but there is so much more that is waiting to happen. So I will not lose my optimism and smile. One day my life too would end, but when I meet my Dad again I want him to tell me that he is proud of me. This is my father’s legacy and I will live by it and be the Man (or better.. the Woman) my father wanted me to be.
Jeans – Levis
Brogues – Zara
Outfit Inspiration: Gender is basically a biological attribute. There is a man and a woman in all. To think of one gender as the weaker sex is a bias I am totally against. Some think that I am feminist but actually I am a humanist. I feel that we should respect and treat everyone equal regardless of gender. There are men I know who are very emotional and woman who are physically very strong. Woman today are financially independent and Men are capable of taking care of the house. So typecasting someone is unfair. I have worn my husbands shirt and waistcoat with my skinny jeans and brogue shoes. I have tried conveying that while I am all about makeup and decking up – I also am capable of wearing the pants (or in this case the shirt and waistcoat) in the family. Today a family is about two equal individuals sharing the burdens (financial and non financial). Noone is dependent on the other in any way other than the love that they share for each other.
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